As we begin this week’s Torah portion, we find Abraham sitting at the entrance to his tent, absorbed in G-d’s presence. Abraham looks up and sees three people approaching. We are told that he immediately gets up and goes to greet and welcome the visitors. Giving those in his midst his full attention he ensures they are comforted by food, drink, and the chance to wash and cool off.
Abraham is often highlighted for his actions at this moment; this text is often used when teaching about hachnasat orchim – the mitzvah of welcoming guests. Abraham is the consummate host, graciously meeting every need of his guests.
He is, in fact, so intent on welcoming and interacting with his guests that he walks away from his interaction with G-d.
The other day I walked into a restaurant to see couples in the midst of dinner each talking on the phone. I saw families where each person’s attention was drawn to their own technology device.
Has it become acceptable behavior for people in social gatherings and meetings to respond to every text or e-mail instead of truly being present to those in the room? If so, is that a good thing?
Certainly there are moments we each need to respond to family or office emergencies and technology has facilitated that ability. And I cherish that technology allows me to remain connected to friends and family who do not live nearby. Yet, when spending precious time with a friend I know I’d rather not have attention taken away by an extended phone conversation.
There is always much to glean from Torah about how we treat each other and use our resources. Our ancestor Abraham was willing to walk away from a sacred conversation with G-d to welcome and be in relationship with those physically present.
From Abraham’s actions at the start of this parsha we can learn to appreciate that technology and the ability to be in the physical presence of others are both treasures. May we learn from our ancestors and use both gifts wisely.
Prior to her position with the Grinspoon Foundation, Iris served as a synagogue educator in Syracuse NY, the Central New York PJ Library Program Coordinator and as a national consultant for PJ Library.
Iris holds a bachelor’s degree in Early Childhood, Elementary, and Special Education, a master’s degree in Special Education and Reading, and Advanced Certification in School Leadership and Administration. Her experience as a secular educator and educational leader in congregational and community settings spans over 20 years. She is also a lay leader in Jewish organizations on the local and national levels. Iris served as the President of CAJE – the Coalition for the Advancement of Jewish Education, which was the largest member organization for Jewish educators in the country.
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